Humans are not naturally exclusively monogamous in the strict biological sense, but they are socially monogamous in that they typically form pair bonds and live in long-term couples. Human monogamy is more of a social and cultural adaptation than a direct biological imperative.
Biological and Evolutionary Perspective
- Humans evolved in a context where forming pair bonds helped with parenting, especially given that human babies require extensive care. This need for biparental investment likely promoted social monogamy, although humans still retain desires for multiple partners, showing a tendency towards both monogamy and non-monogamy.
- Compared to many mammals, less than 10% of which are monogamous, humans are somewhat unique in the prevalence of social monogamy. Among primates, about 29% species are monogamous.
- Human physical traits such as moderate sexual dimorphism and testis size suggest a history of social monogamy, but also some degree of multiple partnering or serial monogamy.
- Genetic evidence and studies of indigenous societies show that many were polygynous historically, but monogamy is widespread and often preferred socially.
Social and Cultural Factors
- Monogamy in humans often involves emotional pair bonding and social arrangements where two individuals commit to each other, although infidelity and serial monogamy (multiple sequential partners) are common.
- Social monogamy evolved partly to reduce male competition and conflict and partly because stable pair bonds benefit offspring survival.
- Cultural shifts toward monogamy increased around 5,000 to 10,000 years ago, with evolving human societies placing higher value on long-term partnerships.
In summary, humans are naturally inclined toward social monogamy as a reproductive and social strategy, but biologically they are not strictly monogamous and have evolved behaviors and desires that include both monogamous and non-monogamous tendencies.