The participants of Extreme Cougar Wives have continued varied lives since the show's airing over a decade ago:
- Jude Bradley and Kevin Herrera, who had a 33-year age gap, remain together and publicly share moments of their relationship as of 2023. Kevin also pursued a music career playing guitar for blues musician Guitar Shorty.
- Hattie Wiener, the show's standout star at 76 years old, is still open about her sexuality today in her 80s and continues to challenge age-related stereotypes about older women's sexuality. She has shifted her perspective to stop casual sex but remains a committed cougar.
- Stephanie Riseley, who was dating a man 37 years her junior on the show, now works as a life and spiritual coach in Los Angeles.
- Kathy Newman remains active and inspires her followers, staying engaged on social media with positive messages.
- Sheri Winkelmann and her younger partner Desmond Huey were last seen together in social media posts up to 2019, with Desmond focusing on a career as a production assistant.
- Jeraldine Saunders, an iconic figure who inspired The Love Boat and was also featured on the show, sadly passed away in 2019 at age 96.
In summary, many of the Extreme Cougar Wives cast members have stayed true to their identities and life pursuits, with some maintaining their relationships and others carving new paths in personal growth and careers.
