how did we get here when i used to know you so well

It sounds like you're expressing feelings of confusion or loss about a relationship or connection that has changed over time. Sometimes, people grow apart or circumstances shift, making things feel unfamiliar even when you once felt close and understood. If you'd like, I can help you explore these feelings, or we can talk about what might have led to this change. Would you like to share more about what you're going through?