The typical amount to give as a wedding gift in 2025 generally ranges between $100 and $150 per guest, reflecting current inflation and living costs
. How much you spend depends largely on your relationship with the couple, your budget, and any additional expenses related to attending the wedding. Here is a breakdown by relationship and typical spending:
- Coworker or distant acquaintance: $50–$75
- Friend or extended family member: $100–$125
- Close friend or relative: $150–$200+
- If bringing a plus-one: add 50% or double the amount
Some etiquette experts suggest matching the gift amount to what the couple likely spent per guest on the wedding reception, but this is not a strict rule and should be balanced with your financial comfort
. For close family or very close friends, spending $150 to $250 or more is common, while $20 to $50 might be appropriate for acquaintances or if you are on a tight budget
. If giving cash, starting at around $100 is a good guideline, with the possibility to increase up to $500 depending on closeness and budget
. Ultimately, the best approach is to give an amount that feels thoughtful yet affordable for you. In summary, aim for about $100–$150 per guest as a baseline, adjust based on your relationship and circumstances, and never feel pressured to exceed what you can comfortably afford
