To talk dirty effectively, start by easing into it comfortably and naturally, focusing on what turns you on and what feels pleasurable to say. Don't overthink it or force it; let the words flow in the moment and be open with your partner about your interests and boundaries. Simple phrases like "I love your body" or "I want you inside me" work well to build anticipation and intimacy. You can also use one-word commands like "Harder" or "More" during the moment to intensify the experience. Texting or sexting can be a good way to practice and gauge reactions before saying things face-to-face. Overall, good dirty talk should feel freeing, feel good, and enhance the sexual connection between partners.
Here are some example phrases to try:
- "I'm so wet/hard right now."
- "I want your mouth on me."
- "Just wait until we get home."
- "Hold me. Caress me all over."
- "Come for me. Kiss my nipples."
- "You feel so good inside me."
- "Harder. Slower. More. Please."
- "I love how hard you can make me come."
Focus on comfort, communication, and enjoying the moment together to make dirty talk a positive and exciting part of your sexual experience.
