To talk dirty to a man effectively, start slow and tease without being overly explicit at first. Use authentic, confident phrases that reflect your true feelings and tailor your words to what he enjoys. Compliment him, describe sensations vividly, and build sexual tension gradually. Whispering naughty things in his ear, asking enticing questions, and expressing how he makes you feel can heighten arousal. Avoid forcing it or using phrases that feel unnatural, and remember that dirty talk is as much about emotional connection as it is about physical excitement. Some examples to get started include:
- "You are so sexy to me."
- "I want you all the way inside me."
- "I love the way your hands feel on my skin."
- "I can’t wait to feel you against me again."
- "Do you like it when I lick your balls, lover?"
- "I’m so wet thinking about you."
Keep it playful, responsive to his reactions, and gradually increase explicitness as comfortable for both of you. Dirty talk can be whispered, said during intimacy, or sent as sexy texts to build anticipation.
