Pilar Sanders, Deion Sanders' ex-wife, was involved in a highly contentious and public divorce and custody battle with him. She filed for divorce around 2011-2013, accusing Deion of being a narcissistic "bully" who cheated on her with multiple people, which led to a prolonged legal dispute over custody of their three children and financial matters
. During their divorce proceedings, Pilar challenged the validity of their prenuptial agreement, alleging forgery and coercion, but a judge ultimately ruled the prenup valid in favor of Deion Sanders
. The divorce was marked by accusations and courtroom drama, including Pilar alleging domestic violence and financial mistreatment, while Deion won a $2.2 million defamation lawsuit against her for false claims she made about him
. There were also incidents of domestic violence allegations against Pilar, including an arrest for assault family violence after allegedly attacking Deion Sanders in their home, witnessed by their children
. Despite the acrimony, there have been rare moments of public civility between them, often related to their children
. In recent years, Pilar has spoken publicly about the challenges of dealing with a narcissistic partner and the impact on their family, emphasizing protection and care for their children
. Deion Sanders has acknowledged the difficult history but has moved on while allowing Pilar to remain involved with their kids
. In summary, Pilar Sanders' actions toward Deion Sanders included filing for divorce with serious allegations, engaging in legal battles over custody and finances, making accusations that led to defamation suits, and being involved in at least one domestic violence incident against him. The relationship was fraught with conflict but centered largely around their family and legal disputes.
