A helicopter parent is a parent who is overly attentive, overprotective, and excessively involved in their child's life, particularly outside the home and in educational settings. They tend to "hover" over their children, closely supervising and controlling many aspects of their lives, including social interactions, academics, and activities. This parenting style is characterized by high anxiety and fear for the child's safety and success, leading parents to intervene frequently to solve problems or prevent mistakes for their children
. The term "helicopter parent" originated in the late 1980s and gained popularity in the early 2000s to describe parents who closely monitor and intervene in their children's lives, even into adulthood. The metaphor likens these parents to helicopters hovering overhead, always present and ready to intervene
. Helicopter parenting often stems from good intentions, such as wanting to protect and help the child succeed, but it can have negative consequences. Children of helicopter parents may struggle with independence, confidence, problem-solving skills, and emotional regulation. They may also experience anxiety, low self-esteem, and difficulties in social relationships because they are not allowed to face challenges and learn from mistakes on their own
. In summary, a helicopter parent is an overprotective and overinvolved parent who closely monitors and controls their child's life out of fear and anxiety, potentially hindering the child's development of autonomy and resilience
