what is an enabler

An enabler is someone whose behavior allows a loved one to continue self- destructive patterns of behavior, particularly in the context of drug or alcohol misuse. This behavior can include providing money, housing, or transportation that enables the person to continue their substance abuse. Enablers may not always be aware that they are enabling the destructive behavior, and their actions can perpetuate a mutually destructive relationship dynamic. Enabling behavior can be detrimental as it prevents the individual from facing the consequences of their actions and seeking the help they need