The best man is a close friend or relative of the groom who is asked to stand by the grooms side to support and assist in any way possible before and during the wedding. The best man is typically in charge of the groomsmen, meaning he leads all communication and spearheads most of their activities and duties. The role of the best man typically comes with specific duties, and in general, the best man is meant to serve as the grooms right hand, lightening the grooms workload before, during, and after the wedding. Here are some of the typical duties of a best man:
Before the wedding:
- Plan and arrange the bachelor party
- Help choose suits for the bridal party
- Assist with picking the wedding rings
- Write a brilliant best mans speech
- Organize the other ushers
- Keep an eye on how the groom is coping
- Show up to pre-wedding events
- Help the groom get ready for the ceremony
- Enter with the groom
- Greet the wedding guests
- Dance with the maid of honor
During the wedding:
- Stand next to the groom during the ceremony
- Deliver the officiants payment after the ceremony
- Sign the marriage license as a witness
- Keep the reception alive and moving
Its important to note that every wedding is different, and the duties of the best man may vary depending on the couples needs and preferences.
