Grooming refers to actions or behaviors used to establish an emotional connection with a minor, sometimes the child's family, to lower the child's inhibitions with the objective of sexual abuse
. It can occur in various settings, such as online or in person, and can involve a stranger or someone the child knows, like a family member, friend, or authority figure
. The process of grooming can take place over a short or long period of time, from weeks to years
. Some key aspects of grooming include:
- Building trust and emotional connection : Groomers methodically build a trusting relationship with the child or young person, their family, and community
- Manipulation and exploitation : Once trust is established, the groomer manipulates, exploits, and abuses the child or young person
- Secrecy and control : Grooming often involves secrecy, undue influence, or control over the child or young person, pushing personal boundaries
- Targeting vulnerabilities : Groomers identify vulnerabilities in the child or young person and erode their boundaries, convincing the world around them that they are safe in their care
It is essential to be aware of the signs and symptoms of grooming, as it often goes unnoticed due to its stealthy nature
. Some red flags that may indicate grooming and/or abuse include:
- The groomer builds a romantic relationship, mentorship, or authority figure role with the child or young person
- The groomer uses the same sites, games, and apps as young people to build a relationship with them
- The groomer pretends to be younger or uses other tactics to gain the trust of a "peer"
If you suspect that a child or young person is being groomed, it is crucial to report your concerns to the appropriate authorities, such as child protection services or the police
