An incel is a term that refers to a person (often a young man) who identifies as unable to form romantic or sexual relationships despite desiring them. The word is a blend of “involuntary celibate.” This identity is typically expressed within online communities where participants discuss their experiences, frustrations, and beliefs about dating, gender dynamics, and society. Key aspects commonly associated with incel communities:
- Self-description as involuntarily celibate and part of a broader online subculture.
- Frustration and resentment toward dating dynamics, sometimes directed at women or feminist movements.
- Discussions that can veer into misogyny, dehumanization, or calls for violence, with some researchers and policy analyses highlighting links to extremist rhetoric and, in rare cases, violent acts.
- The concept of “Chads” and “betas” as shorthand for perceived gendered social hierarchies in mating markets.
- Variability across communities: some discussions emphasize personal responsibility and self-improvement, while others propagate aggressive or hostile ideologies.
Notes and context:
- The term originated from online forums and has since appeared in academic, policy, and media discussions about gender, online extremism, and violence.
- While many who identify as incels may participate in discussions without engaging in violence, researchers and authorities caution that certain strands of incel ideology have been associated with harmful attitudes and, in extreme cases, violent actions.
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