Self-regulation is the ability to monitor and manage ones energy states, emotions, thoughts, and behaviors in ways that are acceptable and appropriate for a given situation. It involves various cognitive and emotional processes that help individuals maintain self-control, make decisions, and achieve long-term goals. Self-regulation can be applied to different aspects of life, such as emotions, behavior, attention, and learning.
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Emotional self-regulation: The ability to respond to the ongoing demands of experience with a range of emotions in a manner that is socially tolerable and flexible. It includes monitoring and modifying emotional reactions, as well as regulating one's own feelings and the feelings of others.
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Behavioral self-regulation: The ability to act in one's long-term best interest, consistent with one's values. It involves monitoring one's behavior, the influences on one's behavior, and the consequences of one's behavior, and then judging and reacting to that behavior.
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Cognitive self-regulation: The ability to control one's thoughts, attention, and memory in order to achieve goals and solve problems. It includes managing and organizing thoughts, converting them into skills used for learning, and continuously monitoring progress toward a goal.
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Attention self-regulation: The ability to stay focused and attentive during tasks, especially in stressful situations. It is a crucial skill for learning and performance in various domains.
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Learning self-regulation: The ability to actively participate in one's own learning process, be aware of one's thought process, and be motivated to learn and achieve goals. It involves setting goals, planning, monitoring progress, and adjusting strategies as needed.
Developing self-regulation skills can have numerous benefits, including better emotional well-being, improved relationships, increased academic and professional success, and enhanced overall life satisfaction.