The best time to tell people about being pregnant is a highly personal decision with no one-size-fits-all answer. Traditionally, many wait until the end of the first trimester (around 12 to 14 weeks), as this is when the risk of miscarriage drops significantly. At this point, ultrasounds and tests usually confirm the pregnancy is progressing well, which provides reassurance to share the news more broadly. However, some choose to share the news earlier with close family or friends for support, especially if they feel comfortable doing so in case complications arise. Others may wait until later in pregnancy, such as after their first ultrasound or when they start showing, or even until the baby is born for casual acquaintances. Here are common considerations and timings for telling different groups:
- Close family and best friends: often told earlier, sometimes as soon as the pregnancy is confirmed or when ultrasound shows a heartbeat (around 6 to 8 weeks).
- Wider circle, coworkers, and social media: usually after the first trimester or after the standard ultrasound (around 18 to 22 weeks).
- Employer: depending on the nature of work and legal protections, some tell early if the job involves physical activity; others wait until comfortable but with enough time to prepare for maternity leave.
Ultimately, one should tell others when they feel ready and comfortable, balancing desire for support with personal privacy and medical considerations.
