The ideal time to have a baby shower is generally around the late second trimester to early or mid-third trimester of pregnancy, typically between 27 and 32 weeks (about four to six weeks before the due date). This timing allows the pregnancy to be well established and reduces the risk of the baby arriving before the shower. It also gives the parents enough time to organize gifts and prepare for the baby without feeling rushed
. Key points to consider:
- Many parents prefer having the shower about one to two months before the due date to avoid being too tired or overwhelmed late in pregnancy
- For pregnancies with multiples or high-risk conditions, an earlier shower in the second trimester may be preferable to allow for bed rest or early arrival of the baby
- Cultural or personal preferences might lead some to hold the shower after the baby is born, especially where it is considered bad luck to receive gifts beforehand
- Scheduling should also consider the availability of key guests and avoid conflicting with holidays or major events
- Invitations are typically sent out four to six weeks before the shower to give guests ample time to plan and shop
Ultimately, the best time depends on the parents' preferences, health considerations, and guest availability, with flexibility to hold the shower earlier or later as needed