The timing for telling people about a pregnancy is a very personal decision with no single right answer. Many people wait until the end of the first trimester (around 12 to 14 weeks) when the risk of miscarriage drops significantly and ultrasounds confirm the pregnancy is healthy. Others may choose to share the news earlier for emotional support or due to visible pregnancy symptoms, while some wait until even later milestones, such as the 20-week ultrasound, to announce to a wider circle or workplace. It is important to tell people when one feels comfortable and considers their own circumstances, needs for support, and potential risks.
Common Considerations for Timing
- First Trimester (up to 12-14 weeks): Many wait due to high miscarriage risks in this period; however, some share early with close family or friends for support, especially if comfortable with others knowing in case of complications.
- Second Trimester (after 14 weeks): The risk of miscarriage is much lower, and additional ultrasounds provide reassurance, making this a popular time to announce pregnancy more broadly, including to coworkers and acquaintances.
- At or After 20 Weeks: Some choose to wait until the second-trimester anatomy scan, which provides clear dating and sometimes allows learning the baby's sex, before announcing.
Personal and Social Factors
- Some share news early to explain pregnancy symptoms or to receive early emotional and practical support.
- The decision can also depend on professional considerations, company policies, and workload planning.
- Consider telling those affected sensitively, such as friends facing infertility or loss, privately.
Ultimately, the best time to tell people is when the pregnant individual feels ready and comfortable, balancing their personal health, emotional support needs, and social considerations.
