who is actually romantic about

The song "Actually Romantic" by Taylor Swift is widely believed by fans to be about Charli XCX. The lyrics suggest it's a playful but pointed commentary on someone obsessed with Taylor, rather than a traditional romantic song. Fans speculate that the song responds to underlying tensions between Taylor and Charli, connected through their intertwined relationships with members of The 1975 band. The song's theme is about realizing that someone has a one-sided obsession or quarrel with Taylor, which she sees as oddly flattering or "actually romantic" in a sarcastic sense.