why did nicole kidman and keith urban break up

Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban separated after 19 years of marriage primarily due to strained relationship dynamics caused by their conflicting schedules and time apart. Keith Urban initiated the separation and moved out to a separate residence, while Nicole was reportedly "blindsided" and did not want the breakup, actively trying to save the marriage. A source revealed there was still love but the intimacy had faded, and they were "just going through the motions" of being married. Their demanding careers had kept them apart for extended periods—Nicole often filming and Keith frequently on tour—which contributed significantly to their growing distance. Despite the separation, there's some hope that time apart could lead to reconciliation, but currently, they are living apart and managing their family situation with support from relatives.