The sign for "I love you" in American Sign Language (ASL) is made by combining the handshapes of the letters I, L, and Y. This is done by extending the thumb, index finger, and little finger, while the middle and ring fingers remain touching the palm. The hand is then directed towards the person being signed to. This sign is popularly known as the "I-L-Y" sign and is widely used in the Deaf community as well as in mainstream culture as a symbol of love and positive feelings.
How to Make the ILY Sign
- Extend the thumb (representing "L").
- Extend the index finger (part of the "L").
- Extend the little finger (representing "I").
- The thumb and little finger together represent "Y".
- Keep the middle and ring fingers folded down touching the palm.
- Point your hand toward the person you want to express "I love you" to.
Usage and Variations
- The ILY sign is informal and can be used to express love, care, or affection in everyday conversations.
- For romantic love, other expressions in ASL exist, but the ILY sign is a strong, simple symbol.
- The signing hand is typically the dominant hand (the one used for writing).
- There are other signs for love in ASL, such as crossing both hands over the chest for a more serious, heartfelt expression of love.
This sign is iconic and has permeated beyond Deaf culture, seen in popular media and recognized widely as a gesture of love and friendship.
