Planning a first date with a guy can be exciting but also nerve-wracking. Here are some ideas to help make the date fun and memorable:
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Choose an ideal dating venue: Many times the guy is expected to choose the venue, but don’t be afraid to offer suggestions. Discuss locations both of you will enjoy. Consider picking a place or activity that relieves some of the pressure to talk. Some date ideas include bowling, a hike and picnic in a park, an art gallery tour, or going to the zoo.
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Talk about having a second date: Most people hint at a second date but don’t settle on one. This leads to confusion and a lot of waiting by the phone. The best second date ideas come from your conversations, and you can hint at doing activities together during your date. It gives him an excuse to see you again.
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Engage in an activity: Doing an activity together can help break the ice and create a fun and relaxed atmosphere. Some ideas include rock climbing, going to an arcade, attending an art class, having a game night, going to an escape room, or taking a boat tour.
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Have a meal together: Sharing a meal can be a great way to get to know each other. Some ideas include going out to dinner, cooking together, having a picnic, or going to a farmers market.
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Be yourself: Remember to be yourself and have fun. Creating a good first impression is all about confidence, which includes dressing comfortably and going to a place you’ll enjoy together. During your date, talk about your life and get to know his life, too. By being yourself, you’ll have him planning out your next date before the first one is over.
