Most people wait until around 12–14 weeks of pregnancy to share widely, because the risk of miscarriage drops significantly after the first trimester. There is no medically “mandatory” time, though, so the best time is when you feel comfortable with others knowing even if a complication occurred.
Common timing guidelines
- Many parents choose to announce more broadly at the end of the first trimester (about 12–13 weeks) or early second trimester, when early ultrasounds and checkups have looked reassuring and miscarriage risk is much lower.
- Some tell close family or friends earlier (for example 6–8 weeks) so they can get emotional and practical support if they have strong symptoms or if something goes wrong.
Factors to consider
- Medical: If you have a high‑risk pregnancy or past losses, your clinician may suggest waiting until after certain milestones like a reassuring ultrasound or screening tests.
- Personal and social: Think about who you would want support from if you had a miscarriage; it is generally reasonable to tell those people as soon as you are ready, and wait longer to tell acquaintances or social media.
When to talk to a clinician
- Seek prompt medical advice for warning signs such as significant pelvic pain, cramping worse than menstrual cramps, or any bright red vaginal bleeding, regardless of whether you have announced yet.
- A first prenatal visit, usually around 8–10 weeks, is a good time to ask your provider about your individual risks and get personalized guidance on when to share the news.
